I actually hear both of you guys, as well as perspectives on any subject when musical contexts are involved.
I think its pretty apparent what happens when we try to communicate using the spoken language, instead of the performed idioms.
Saw a great movie yesterday; about the so-called suicide of George Reeves (you know, the guy who played the original Superman series as "Superman." From what the screenwriter and director(s) sought to bring forward was that none of us know the real deal unless we're there witnessing it for ourselves. What I got from the plot (and scripting) was that George Reeves (the actor) was so despondent over being type casted by the so-called 'know it alls,' that he might have very well committed suicide, rather than being murdered.
What amazes me as well, is that it takes so long for consuming mindsets to "get it;" i.e. so many seem to be caught up in their own thing these daze, that we fail as a society to recognize what went wrong before us with a view toward correcting it and ourselves. After all, none of us can do a damn thing on our own these daze unless we are successful in working with (or influencing) other people. Now that is the trick... or should I say it has always been a principle.
Don... got your email as well as reading you comments here man. I wasn't judging you... in fact I was applauding you. Like you (me), I don't have to "HEAR" you play a ballad to know that you already know how to do it. In fact, I said that within this very thread. Sorry it got lost in the translation. No offense (or judgment intended). Further, what I meant about you being elusive was right on the money: I was being facetious with you fella. I would have thought you'd recognize the sarcasm in that I've heard you already know the "role" of a drummer, unlike some who bash regardless of the sensitivity which the music calls for. I'm really sorry you got the wrong idea... and accept my apology for any confusion.
Pete... absolutely. We spoke about this on the phone last week. You brought up your scenarious where even when face to face in a room with competing mindsets, two or more people whom you respect can be at odds among themselves. Just like you remembered with me, it was Eric Gale and Paul Allen when on an Ashford & Simpson I had to balance the expectations of both... and heck, I'm the contracted drummer for the date!
... hmmm... forgive me; I seem to remember that such is life in general also!